Bila kita ada kawan yang dahulunya bengkang bengkok seperti ular kena palu, tiba-tiba berubah menjadi straight dan nak kawin bagai, rasanya most of our reaction akan jelik semacam kan?? Tak tahu kenapa, padahal benda tu benda baik. Patutnya kena la bagi sokongan.
Tapi kena tengok la jugak what's the reason behind it, sebab some of them ni pun bukannya betul-betul nak berubah. Hanya sekadar nak mengaburi mata masyarakat or mak ayah suruh kawin. Kawin tu just cukup syarat je. Kesian sangat perempuan yang mangsa jantan-jantan tak sedar dek untung ni. Dah beranak pinak pun masih nak menjalang lagi kan?? Keji sangat!! Takde ke panglima-panglima yang nak tolong ludah muka diorang ni?? Eh!
Korang rasa, perlu ke tak perlu bagitau bakal isteri about your past?
I think, it is important for those guy yang who was gay previously bagitau his future wife yang he was gay before and now dia dah insaf and dah berubah (make sure betul-betul insaf la ye!). Because, I think sooner or later she will found out anyway. Benda-benda macam ni bukannya susah nak korek. I'm sure akan ada mulut-mulut lahanat yang suka membawa cerita. So, it is better to know it from tuan empunya diri daripada tahu from mulut-mulut longkang pondan-pondan or dari mulut jantan-jantan simpanan you. You don't need to tell her all the details.
Lagipun better to know sebelum kawin than after kawin. How do you feel if you found out the woman that you're married to rupanya dah ditebuk tupai tanpa kerelaan dia?? Or dia pernah kena rape before? Same goes on this matter.
I'm sure most of the woman will appreciate it. If she didn't care about your past, lucky you!! If she found it hard to accept your past, than she's not the one for you lah kan?? Lagipun, jodoh tu kan di tangan Allah?? I'm sure there are loads of girl yang ok with it.
Besides, you cannot build a relationship based on lies!
Anyway, it's christmas eve-eve today and I'm just finished wrapping all the presents. My flatmates had it all ready since October. Yeah! So I'm really way behind, but hey better late than never!
Here are some photos taken from the christmas decoration. Our house are pretty much looking like a mini winter wonderland Kudos to R, who worked so hard to put up everything. He is always exited with christmas.
So, I want to take this opportunity to wish all of my friends who is celebrating, have a lovely christmas and happy new year.
Sebelum ada ustaz dan ustazah jadi-jadian bagi komen mengecam yang bukan-bukan pasal syirik dan tergelincir akidah if we wish kawan kita happy christmas, here are the link yang discuss about this matter. Sila baca dan fahamkan ye.
Cheerios!!
8 orang meroyan:
tu baru wish christmas dkt orang..
belum lagi ustaz dan ustazah jadi-jadian tgk anak2 org mesia yg sekolah dkt public school Hengland buat christmas play about "The Birth of Jesus".. Matik kena cerca parents2 dkt sini
Tu diah!! Aku pun tak tau la akak, apa yg terpesongnye? Sebab aku tak pernah anggap pun Jesus tu Nabi Isa a.s. Pandai2 la kita jaga akidah kita and at the same time kita kena ambik tahu dan respect kepercayaan diorang. Bukan ke tu adalah sebahagian dari agama kita?? Menjaga hubungan sesama manusia?
Akak bangga dgn kekuatan dan kefahamab aqidah kamu ... Keep writing sbb kamu make a lot of sense among all the nonsense out there
sbb tu until now i still dara.#pekopmulot
Merry Xmas to both of ya..looks great all the pressies :) Yes, mak rasa nak lempang sesekor kat mukabuku ittew fasal ucapan krismas ni..I mean like, hello?? Get a f***ing life! Asyik nak tunding jari jah kerja! Ops maafin mak termeroyan uols! xxx
Mak suke decoration Xmas uollsss!!! Very the colorful gitu! Celebration mmg taleh la nok sbb tu keugamaan... stakat nk ucap 'Happy holidays and happy new yr' tu tkpe nok... Btw, mak dulu sekolah homputeh dr darjah 1 smpi darjah 6. Mcm2 event christian depa buat. Seb baik mak tak murtad hoccay~! Nama skolah tuh - St. Thomas Primary School sblm ditukar kepada Sekolah Rendah Kebangsaan St. Thomas (buruk yang hamatttttt)
Anon, thanks :-)
Piyan, dara ke??? Sudehhhhhhhh!!! Sekilas ikan di air aku dah tau yang kau tu dah ditepuk oleh tupai jantan!
Lee, kannnn uols!!! Enjoy you holiday naaaa.
Karl, nowaday celebration pun dah commercialise sampaikan dah takde ciri-ciri agama pun. Tapi idok le aku ni masuk gereja berhymmm bagai nyah hei!
kadang2 seronok gak buat statement provokasi camtu kat fb.
like last deepavali i wish je semua kawan2 dlm friendlist i yg beragama hindu 'happy deepavali'
and guess what??
ada je ustaz/ah jadian dlm friendlist i tetiba jahh post link2 yg cakap benda tu haram n tak sepatutnya diucapkan oleh seorang islam sebab seolah-olah kita mengiktiraf dan mengiyakan perayaan tersebut.
hello? korang ni sekolah kat mana dulu?
kekdahnya klu ko ddk kat gera timur tengah tu rasanya wajarlah buat perangai camtu, ni korang ddk malaysia plak whereby you're not the only race yg memijak tanah yg sama occay! you're sharing it with many other races so rasanya TAK SALAH LANGSUNG klu sekadar ucap happy deepavali/christmas/hannukah/whateverlahkan kat those yg celebrate?
gila shallow!
the same goes to diorang cakap yg kita takleh terima wishes dr non-muslim apabila non-muslim ucap selamat hari raya kat kita...
seriously...seriously...seriously.. (tenung dalam2)
tak faham aku dgn sebilangan ortodoks yg ada kat fb tu. bajet sama level dgn ulama main forward2 link yg blom pasti kesahihannya pastu dok percaya secara membuta tuli... sebijik mcm babi merodok tanah.
=)
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